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Wednesday, 30 January 2019

Travel Until You Find Your Destination In Life




Travel is by far one of the most incredible things that you can do in your life. It's something that gives
you the opportunity to explore and move around endlessly until you find what you're looking for. Most
of the time, no one really knows what that is until they've found it, which is already an experience
within itself. If you still haven't gone off on your adventure yet, it's worth asking yourself why. Is it
because you feel as though you have too many responsibilities to take care of, like your job, or your
family, or your social commitments? Well, whatever the reason may be, have you ever thought that it
may be your comfort excuse? Something that you use in order to get out of things that you're
nervous about. You see, the initial idea of travelling can be extremely daunting, and this is perfectly
normal to see it this way. You're essentially going somewhere that you've never been to before, while
the people are speaking a language around you that you don't understand, as well as new cultures and delicacies you don't know anything about. Because of all of this, it can have you feeling vulnerable, but you need to realise that vulnerability isn't a bad thing. You can learn and discover so much about yourself just from letting go and allowing yourself to flow with the waves. One thing that will be beneficial to you, is knowing that there really is no right time to do anything in life. You, in fact, make the time right.

There are so many different roads that you can take in order to get to one destination, but there are
also many different destinations to reach too. Every different stage of your life is another chapter to
complete, and what better way to explore those by being in a new environment every time?

Your surroundings play a huge part in your overall well being. The outside world effects you in so
many ways that you wouldn't even realise. For example, if you are used to living in a city, you will be
used to industrial life, places full of artichect, traffic, and a general rush of life. So to go from this setting
to a place where trees have never been greener, the air has never smelt fresher, and the mother
nature has been untouched - this a shock to the system in all the right ways. This is also why people
swear that travel helps your mental health, because it takes you out of your rut - literally and
metaphorically.

So here's all you need to know about travelling until you find just what you're looking for, and more.

Don't carry too much.
When on your travels, you will be very tempted to pack as many things as you can, as it's very easy
to find another reason or scenarios where you'll need to bring another pair of shoes. But you'll soon
learn that with travelling, less is certainly more. If you want to be able to move from place to place
without all the unnecessary baggage, then carry light. Having said that, there will be times where you
see something that you can't ignore and you must buy it, no matter how random it may be. When
moments like this arise, you shouldn't feel as though you can't have what you want, but if you're
worried about trying to transport it wherever you go, then ship it! If you want to purchase souvenirs
along the way, then don't let anything stop you. Once you reach a storage limit, simply have your
things posted to your friends or family back in your hometown that can hold onto everything while
keeping it safe for the time being.

Know when to pause.
No matter wherever you go, remember that you can stop whenever and wherever you wish. There are
no rules as to how long you're on the move for, it just depends what you fall in love with. You may be
travelling around Asia and make a stop in Singapore, and immediately know where you need to be so
you look at an HDB for rent. Finding a place to rent gives you the chance to slow things down and
really enjoy where you are and the lifestyle that surrounds you, learning as much as you can. You can
settle down for a few months, or maybe even a year. Learn the language, the culture, and build more
around you as your chapter goes on. As mentioned earlier, life seems to be so fast-paced nowadays
that it's essential to take time out to pause and appreciate all the wonderful things out there.

Be a social butterfly.
You will come across so many different people when you travel, and that's one of the reasons it's such
a beautiful thing to do. As a human, we long to make connections, that's something that we require in
order to survive and be happy. Travelling allows you to meet people you may have never come across
in your ordinary life. You get to meet locals that take pleasure from teaching you new things and
showing you all the hidden gems that their country has to offer. And you will also meet other
like-minded travellers that are out there on their own adventure and answering questions about
themselves. You can share stories and learn about their own reasons as to why they're doing this,
giving you a little inspiration, and possibly even inspiring others yourself. And who knows, you may
end up making some friends for life.

Now you see what things to think about and what benefits that they offer you, there is no time like the
present. Life is full of so much wonder and fascination, and yet it is cruelly fast and over before you
know it, so don't let time consume you and take control over the things that you want to see and do in
your life. There is a lot that we can't control, and that can be very scary and frustrating at times, but
rather than spend your life stressing about these things, focus on what you do have a say over, like
what choices and decisions you make in your life. Every little choice adds up and puts you on a new
road, and where you go is entirely up to you.


It's always a good idea to speak to your family and friends and let them know your plans. They will be
able to give you their opinion and support. You have to be prepared for some people to be against
getting up and leaving the country, as they will have their own fears and insecurities about things,
which is of course understandable. But at the end of the day, if this is something that you want to do,
then you need to do it. This is your life, and so you're in charge of the happiness you allow yourself to
have. Some people may not understand certain choices and decisions that you make as a result, but
some will. Some, if not all will be excited and joyful of the idea that you're doing something you've
always wanted to do, and are beginning the rest of your life the way you want to. Just be sure to take
plenty of photos and videos to send back to them so they can all be jealous of your amazing travels
around this oh so beautiful world.

2 comments:

  1. Hello, lil kitten, nice to hear from you again. Welcome to this big/ small world. I have travelled a lot in my life so far and likely will continue to do so. Be well, eh? Please know that I love you. cat.

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  2. I am not all that keen on travelling long haul now. Old already...but I sure do not mind flying to places close by. Cuti-cuti Malaysia, for the win!

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